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Do we live in a rape
culture? Are there at least elements of our society that condone
rape? Think about this:
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Grand
Theft Auto is one of the top selling video games
of all time. Points are earned by beating prostitutes to
death with baseball bats after having sex with them. In the
video game Duke Nukem, a player hones his skills by
using pornographic posters of women for target practice, and
earns bonus points for shooting naked and bound prostitutes
and strippers who beg, "Kill me."
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Music videos
commonly depict women as bound, gagged, on their knees, held
by their hair, grabbed by the wrist, yanked around or spread
out in vulnerable positions on their backs - in other words
pervasive scenes of coercion, aggression, intimidation and
fear. Rap artist Eminem's song Kim graphically
depicts him murdering his wife: and Kill You
describes how he plans to rape and murder his mother.
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Last
Halloween, costume companies sold "pimp" and
"ho" costumes for preschoolers, including
"tear-away tops" for four year old girls.
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The media is
saturated with sex. It might be noted that in the Super Bowl
incident Janet Jackson was widely assailed for "baring
her breast." It has already been forgotten that the
staged event featured Justin Timberlake simulating rape by
tearing off her clothing... moments before, he sang the
lyric "I'll have you naked by the end of this
song." This publicity stunt reveals how pervasive
cultural misogyny and widespread acceptance of aggressive
behavior toward women is. Music, videos, movies and TV
programs urge men to take whatever they can get.
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CBS's new
show, "The Sexiest Night on Television", is
advertised with pictures of women wearing only fishnet hose
and seductive lingerie.
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Ask any high
school boy to define masculinity. Chances are his first
answer will be "tough", "hard", "in
charge." Caring, sensitive and empathetic are not even
in the top 100.
We live in a culture that romanticizes violence against
women. From Scarlett O'hara fighting off Rhett Butler in
Gone with the Wind to General Hospital's Laura marrying
Luke, her rapist, all the way to contemporary music video
and advertising, the romanticizing of sex involves women
being seduced by men's force.
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