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In a survey
conducted in 1999, university researchers surveyed men to
determine the extent of "rape-prone" attitudes.
The study showed that about 30% of American men hold what the researchers
considered to be rape-prone beliefs. These figures were higher
in male-only communities, such as fraternity houses and military
dormitories. However, these attitudes were not set in concrete.
Given even limited exposure to rape prevention education, 75% of
the 30% of men with rape-prone attitudes modified their beliefs,
and maintained attitudinal shifts two years after education
exposure. The rape-prone beliefs fell into the following
categories:
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Lack of
Victim Empathy - Sexual assault is one of the most
personal, volatile crimes, yet it is the only crime of this
nature where the victim is questioned or blamed. The
victim's body has been violated, her spirit broken, but men
and women buying into rape-prone belief ser are able to disregard
this, considering that persons who are raped are somewhat
less than fully human. If it were a carjacking, it would be
clear to society who was in the wrong. But rape victims are
often met with skepticism, and treated with contempt. By
devaluing the rape victim, the rapist can justify his
action.
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Lack of
Understanding the Worth and Value of Others, Particularly
those who are "Different" - Sometimes
perpetrators of rape have a sense of entitlement, or a
belief that they can take what they want because they are
male, for example. One past stereotypical role of men was
the rule of thumb, which meant that a man should not hit his
wife with a stick thicker than his thumb. Other sexual
offenders regard children as property; or members of a
different race as less valuable. Men and women who are
developmentally challenged, mentally or physically
handicapped, or imprisoned are highly vulnerable to rape.
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Peer
Pressure to Conform to Stereotypes (be a man, not a sissy)
- Because people have a need for acceptance and to feel like
they fit in, they feel pressure to do what they think
everyone else is doing instead of doing what they feel is
right or making an individual decision. A child coming
through the school system learns quickly that it can be
physically dangerous not to be accepted by the "cool
crowd." The instinct to conform stays with many of us
through adulthood. Women bow to the pressure to be cool, to
drink, to be pleasing. Men crack under the pressure to be
strong, virile, able to get what they want when they want
it.
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